CBT Resource Library

Therapy isn't just about talking. It's about learning practical skills. Explore these free videos and interactive tools to start applying TEAM-CBT to your daily life.

Disclaimer: Utilizing these resources is for educational and skill-building purposes only. It does not establish a therapeutic relationship and does not constitute being in therapy with Richard Lam, LMFT.

Interactive Clinical Tools

Click any tool below to open the interactive worksheet. You can practice the skills directly on your device and save your answers when finished.

Acceptance Tool

Acceptance

Discover how self-acceptance and radical honesty can reduce anxiety and shame.

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Externalization of Resistance Tool

Externalization of Resistance

A motivational role-play tool to overcome the specific voices keeping you stuck.

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Externalization of Voices Tool

Externalization of Voices

A role-play method to defeat your inner critic. Treat repeating negative thoughts as an external voice to effectively confront, challenge, and disarm them.

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Feared Fantasy Tool

Feared Fantasy

Confront fears of what others might think. Through exaggerated roleplay, discover that anxieties are often distorted, allowing you to feel more relaxed and authentic.

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Finding a Therapist Guide

Finding a Therapist

A step-by-step guide to finding a "good-enough fit" and preparing for clinical consultations.

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Forced Empathy Tool

Forced Empathy

Practice seeing the world through another's eyes to resolve interpersonal conflicts.

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Future Projection Forced Empathy Tool

Future Projection Forced Empathy

Combine empathy and visualization to resolve ongoing relationship struggles.

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Future Projection for Habits Tool

Future Projection for Habits

Visualize the long-term impact of your habits to boost immediate motivation.

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I Feel Statements Part 1 Tool

I Feel Statements (Part 1)

Learn to express emotions in ways that invite connection rather than defensiveness.

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I Feel Statements Part 2 Tool

I Feel Statements (Part 2)

Navigate the subtle line between healthy assertiveness and unintended manipulation.

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Relapse Preparation Tool

Relapse Preparation

Create a proactive plan to manage future setbacks and maintain your progress.

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Relationship Journal Part 1 Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 1)

Understand the conflict by clarifying the specific moment and your own internal experience.

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Relationship Journal Part 2 Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 2)

Decide whether you truly want to give up blame by exploring its costs and benefits.

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Relationship Journal Part 3 Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 3)

Step into the other person's shoes to break cycles of resentment through empathy.

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Relationship Journal Part 4

Relationship Journal (Part 4)

Revise how you communicate to express yourself more empathetically, assertively, and respectfully.

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Stroking Tool

Stroking & Validation

Create emotional safety and profound connection through genuine appreciation and respect.

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The Double Standard Tool

The Double Standard

Overcome harsh self-criticism by learning to treat yourself with the same kindness and empathy you would naturally offer a close friend.

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Triple Paradox Tool

Triple Paradox

Explore your natural resistance to change with compassion to build powerful internal motivation.

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Clinical Skills Video Series

Watch these tools and techniques in action on the Feeling Good Therapist channel.

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